You’ve probably been there before:
- You walk up to a group of friends talking. Stand there awkwardly while waiting for one of them to notice you. Wish for death.
- You start telling a story to a group of people and — in the middle of it — realize the story sucks. Continue anyway.
- You go to an event and instead of meeting people, pull out your phone and furiously check email.
With your friends or family, you have the BEST stories, but if you just met a group of people, all of a sudden your mind goes blank and you have nothing to say.
Today, I want to teach 3 systems that helped me know how to talk with confidence and know exactly what to say in any social situation.
- Perfect Words
- Story Toolbox
- Question Toolbox
Let’s get to it.
How to talk to people system #1: Perfect Words
A while back, I went out to coffee with a good friend of mine. Now…